As you already know, your body is made of cells but consider for a moment that your life experience is made by emotions. There are two main sources of emotions, one is fear and the other is love. We experience both emotions but there is one that predominates in everyday people and that is fear.
In order to understand these emotions, below are certain characteristics about love and fear. With this knowledge, I desire it to inspire and empower you to take control of the choices you make going forward. This is a crucial step in taking control of your mental/emotional reactions and maintaining your increased frequency and deterring lower energy forms from attaching themselves to your energy. With conscious choices in addition to the Auric Clearing, Karma Removal and DNA Activations, you will significantly change your life and awaken to be your full potential self.
Full of Obligations- we do things because we feel we HAVE to. This leads to resistance. Resistance leads to suffering which leads to the feeling of escaping from the obligations.
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No Obligations- no resistance, we do things because we desire to. This leads to pleasure resulting in the experience of fun.
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Full of Expectations- We expect we have to, we expect others to the same. This leads to hurt which leads to hurt. Hurting leads to blaming of others, It’s Not Fair”
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No expectations- we do because we desire to whether other people do or not do. It is NOT PERSONAL. When one does not expect something to happen, it is not important – No emotional attachment.
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No Respect for Anything – This includes itself. If I feel sorry for you, it means I do not respect you. You cannot make your own choices – leads to control. When one does not respect themselves, one feels sorry for self. “I’m not good enough to make it in this world”, “Poor Me”; “I’m not strong enough, smart enough”. Self pity comes from disrespect. Disrespect is victim mentality.
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Based on Respect- Love doesn’t feel sorry for anyone. It has COMPASSION. “I love you, I know you can make it, I know you are strong enough, smart enough to make your own choices.” If you fail, I can give you my hand, I can help you to stand up, and I can say “You can do it, go ahead.” That is compassion and it comes from respect.
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Avoids Responsibility- Avoiding responsibility doe s not mean that it is not responsible. Avoiding responsibility is the biggest mistake we make because every action has a consequence. If we make a choice, we have an outcome or a reaction. If we don’t make a choice there is an outcome or reaction.
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Love is completely responsible.
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Is Unkind: Anger, Sadness and Jealously is nothing but fear with a mask. With all these emotions that come from fear and create suffering, we can only PRETEND to be kind. We are not kind because we don’t feel good, we are not happy.
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Always Kind- no obligations, no expectations, we don’t feel sorry for ourselves or for our partner. Everything is going well and that is why a smile is always on one’s face.
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Selfish- It is only about me. Selfishness closes all doors.
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Generous - We feel good about ourselves and because we are happy. Kindness leads to generosity and opens all doors.
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Full of Conditions- I love you IF you let me control you, IF you are good to me, IF you fit into the image I make for you. I create an image of the way you SHOULD be and because you are not and never will be the image, I JUDGE you because of that and find you guilty. Many times I even feel ashamed of you because you are not what I want you to be. If you don’t fit that image I create, you embarrass me, you annoy me, I have no patience at all with you. I am pretending kindness. This is a perfect example of Co-Dependence.
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Unconditional- There is no conditions. I love you for no reason, with no justification. I love you the way you are, and you are free to be the way you are. If I do not like the way you are, then I’d better be with someone who is the way I like them to be. We do not have the right to change anyone else and no one else has the right to change us. If we are going to change it is because we WANT to change.
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No Justice – You make yourself pay a thousand times for the same mistake. You make your partner, your friend, or your children pay a thousand times for the same mistake. This creates a sense of injustice and opens many emotional wounds and then you set yourself up to fail.
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Justice – If you make a mistake, you pay only once for that mistake and if you truly love yourself, you learn from that mistake.
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