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Frequency Awareness - Karma Removal - Emotional Trauma and Codependent Roles Article - Change Your Frequency ... Change Your Life !

 

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Emotional Trauma / Codependent Roles


Emotional Trauma - Codependent Roles

This article covers the effects in persona of the emotional dynamics of families and the roles we took on as children that have followed us into adulthood. Karma Removal and Codependency Karma Removal sessions are effective in clearing these persona energetic imprints and beliefs from the human energetic field.


The emotional dynamics of families are basic and like emotional dynamics for all human beings are pretty predictable.  There are four basic roles that children adopt in order to survive growing up in emotionally dishonest, shame-based, family systems.  Children will maintain one role or switch through all four even into adulthood.  These roles can be transmuted in the co-dependency Karma Removal sessions.

Responsible Child "Family Hero"

This is the child who is 9 going on 40.  This child takes over the parent role at a very young age, becoming very responsible and self-sufficient.  They give the family self-worth because they LOOK good to the OUTSIDE.  They are the good students, the sports stars, the prom queens.  The parents look to this child to prove that they are good parents and good people.


As an adult, the Family Hero is rigid, controlling, and extremely judgmental of others and secretly of themselves.  They achieve "success" on the outside and get lots of positive attention but are cut off from their inner emotional life, from their True Self.  They are compulsive and driven as adults because deep inside they feel inadequate and insecure.

The Family Hero because of their "success" in conforming to dysfunctional cultural definitions of what constitutes doing life "right" is often the child in the family who as an adult has the hardest time even admitting that there is anything within themselves that needs to be healed.

Acting Out Child "Scapegoat"

This is the child that the family feels ashamed of and the most emotionally honest child in the family.  He/she acts out the tension and anger the family ignores.  This child provides distraction from the real issues in the family.  The scapegoat usually has trouble in school because they get attention the only way they know how - which is negatively.  They often become pregnant or addicted as teenagers.

These children are usually the most sensitive and caring which is why they feel such tremendous hurt.  They are romantics who become very cynical and distrustful.  They have a lot of self-hatred and can be very self-destructive.  This often results in this child becoming the first person in the family to get into some kind of recovery.

Placater - Mascot - "Caretaker"

This child takes responsibility for the emotional well-being of the family.  They become the families "social director" and or clown, diverting the family's attention from the pain and anger.

This child becomes an adult who is valued for their kind heart, generosity, and ability to listen to others.  Their whole self-definition is centered on others and they do not know how to get their own needs met.  They become adults who cannot receive love, only give it.  They often have case loads rather than friendships- and get involved in abusive relationships in an attempt to "save" the other person.  They go into the helping professions and become nurses and social workers and therapists.  They have very low self-worth and feel a lot of guilt that they work very hard to overcome by being really "nice" (people pleasing, classically codependent) people.

Adjuster "Lost Child"

This child escapes by attempting to be invisible.  They daydream, fantasize, read a lot of books or watch a lot of TV.  They deal with reality by withdrawing from it.  They deny that they have any feelings and "don't bother getting upset."

These children grow up to be adults who find themselves unable to feel and suffer very low self-esteem.  They are terrified of intimacy and often have relationship phobia.  They are very withdrawn and shy and become socially isolated because that is the only way they know to be safe from being hurt.  A lot of actors and writers are "lost children" who have found a way to express emotions while hiding behind their characters.

These are persona roles solidified in the shadow self where the programming fires in the neural nets and energetic field and unconscious reactions project into the life experience.  Clearing these imprints from your field is very powerful and transformational.
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